S.S. v. State (In re State ex rel. D.S.)

535 P.3d 843

STATE of Utah, IN the INTEREST OF D.S. and K.S., Persons Under Eighteen Years of Age.

S.S., Appellant,

v.State of Utah, Appellee.

No. 20220956-CA

Court of Appeals of Utah.

Filed August 31, 2023

Rehearing Denied September 22, 2023

Sheleigh A. Harding, Attorney for Appellant

Sean D. Reyes, Carol L.C. Verdoia, and John M. Peterson, Salt Lake City, Attorneys for Appellee

Martha Pierce, Salt Lake City, Guardian ad Litem

Judge Ryan M. Harris authored this Opinion, in which Judges David N. Mortensen and Amy J. Oliver concurred.

Opinion

HARRIS, Judge:

¶1 After a trial, the juvenile court terminated S.S.’s (Father) parental rights regarding his two children, D.S. and K.S. (collectively, the Children), concluding that it was in the best interest of the Children for them to be adopted by their paternal grandmother (Grandmother). Father appeals the court's termination order, asserting that—under the precise circumstances presented here, where the Children are being placed with Father's own mother and where permanent guardianship remains a viable option—termination of his rights was not strictly necessary to promote the best interest of the Children. We agree with Father, and reverse the juvenile court's termination order.

BACKGROUND

¶2 Father is the biological father of K.S., a boy born in 2010, and D.S., a girl born in 2016. Father resided with the Children and their mother (Mother) from the time the Children were born until approximately 2018. In 2014, the Division of Child and Family Services (DCFS) received a report that Father had committed "Domestic Violence related child abuse" against K.S. and some of the Children's other siblings; most notably, the report alleged that Father had "cut [a sibling's] hand with a knife." DCFS found the allegations "supported," but it did not take action to remove K.S. at that time, and no criminal charges were ever filed.

¶3 Around 2017, after D.S. was born, a protective order was entered against Father, for reasons unclear from this record, that restricted his ability to contact Mother. Even after entry of the protective order, though, Father continued to reside with Mother for about another year, in apparent violation of that order. Eventually, in 2018, Father and Mother went through "a messy break up" and separated; the Children remained in Mother's custody. In the year following the separation, Father spent time with the Children on a regular basis through "weekend visits" that Grandmother initiated and staged at her house.

¶4 During this time period, Father was arrested for "possession of a dangerous weapon"—"a pocketknife in [his] pocket"—in connection with various "protective order violations." In late 2019, he was sentenced to prison, and ordered to serve a term of zero to five years. When Father first got to prison, he was unable to visit with the Children—even virtually—due to the continued existence of the protective order, but in March 2020, after obtaining a modification to that order, he began visiting with the Children through weekly "video visits" or "phone visits." In the beginning, it was Grandmother who "was really insistent" that these virtual visits take place between Father and the Children. And since 2020, such visits have occurred on more or less a weekly basis.

¶5 In early 2021, while Father was still incarcerated, the Children were removed from Mother's custody after an incident in which Mother abandoned them. The Children were later adjudicated neglected as to Mother and dependent as to Father, and the juvenile court placed them with Grandmother. In later proceedings, Mother's parental rights were terminated, a determination Mother has not appealed. And due to Father's ongoing incarceration, reunification services were never offered to him; the juvenile court set a permanency goal of adoption.

¶6 In January 2022, the State filed a petition seeking to terminate Father's parental rights regarding the Children. Prior to trial on that petition, Father stipulated that—largely due to his incarceration—the State could show at least one statutory ground for termination of his parental rights. But the case proceeded to trial on the other element of the termination test: whether termination was strictly necessary to promote the best interest of the Children. On that point, Father took the position that termination of his rights was not strictly necessary, given that—at least in his view—he had a good relationship with the Children, they were in the care of his own mother (Grandmother), and he would undoubtedly be a part of their lives going forward, at least in some sense, simply due to that reality. He asserted that a permanent custody and guardianship arrangement would suit this situation better than adoption would.

¶7 In August 2022, the juvenile court held a relatively brief trial to consider that issue; during that trial, the court heard argument from counsel and testimony from three witnesses: the DCFS caseworker (Caseworker), Grandmother, and Father.¹ Caseworker testified that the Children were doing well in Grandmother's care. She was aware that the Children have regular virtual visits with Father, but she noted that the Children "don't talk [with her] much about" those visits and, when they do, they often just say "they don't remember what they talked [with Father] about." Caseworker stated that she knows that the Children "love [Father]," and did not recall either of them ever saying that they found Father "scary." But she offered her view that adoption by Grandmother was in the Children's best interest, opining that "adoption is necessary to allow them permanency and ... a long-lasting, stable environment." She also stated that she had talked to the Children "about adoption" and that the Children "would like to be adopted by [Grandmother]," but did not elaborate or offer any context for this conversation.

¶8 Grandmother testified that the Children were doing well in school and thriving in her care. She acknowledged that, as a general matter, "fathers are important" in the lives of children, and she stated that she had been "a big advocate for" Father throughout the entire saga, even pushing to set up virtual visits from the prison after Father was first incarcerated. But she testified that, over time, she had become more of "an advocate for the [Children]," and offered her view that, due to some of the "choice[s]" Father had made, the relationship between Father and the Children had not "functioned properly for a very long time." She discussed, at some length, the regular virtual visits that the Children have with Father, and she acknowledged that Father is a good listener during the visits. But she stated that the Children have lost interest in the visits over time, and that the visits are "hard for" the Children and make them "uncomfortable" because "they don't know what to do" during the visits. To cope with the discomfort, Grandmother has added some "structure[ ]" to the visits "so that [the Children] would have things to talk about"; for instance, K.S. often plays the piano for Father during the visits, while D.S. often "plays kitchen" and pretends to cook things for Father. Grandmother offered her perception that the Children do not wish to have regular virtual visits anymore, and that Father does not understand that the visits are hard for the Children. She noted that sometimes the Children need to "spend some time kind of snuggling" with her after the visits. Grandmother also testified that, on at least one occasion, K.S. said that Father is "scary."

¶9 Grandmother testified that she is ready, willing, and able to continue caring for the Children. But she voiced a strong preference for adopting them rather than acting as their permanent guardian. When asked why, she offered her view that adoption would be "less confusing" for the Children and that she could be "a consistent parent" for them given her "resources." She opined that a guardianship arrangement "may suit [Father]," but she didn't think it was "in the [C]hildren's best interests." She also stated that she was worried about what would happen to the Children—and, specifically, whether they would return to Father's custody—if something were to happen to her. She acknowledged, however, that she would be willing to care for the Children in either form of custody (adoption or guardianship). And she also acknowledged that, even if Father's parental rights were terminated and she were allowed to adopt the Children, she would nevertheless be open to the possibility that Father could still have a role in the Children's lives, and in that situation she would "ask for some guidance from people that know more than [she does] about that," such as the Children's therapist. She testified that she had discussed the possibility of adoption with the Children, and that D.S. had compared it to those "commercials on TV about adopting a dog." Referring to that comment, Grandmother acknowledged that the Children "have some misconceptions about" what adoption would mean and stated that she had "tried to fix" those misconceptions, but she offered no specifics about how she had attempted to do that.

¶10 Father was the trial's final witness. In his testimony, he first described the involvement he has had in the Children's lives since their birth, stating that when the family was living together he saw the Children every day, "took them to school, [and] everything." Father acknowledged that the situation had changed due to his incarceration, and he recognized that the virtual visits from prison are "not ideal" because there are often other inmates in the background on video calls and because the technology sometimes has issues, but overall, he offered his view that the visits had been going well and that he did not think the visits were uncomfortable for the Children.

As he perceived it, the Children "seem[ed] excited to see" him and "always tell [him] they love" him. He credited the virtual visits for allowing him...