Conroy v. Idlibi

183 Conn.App. 460

193 A.3d 663

Katie N. CONROY

v.Ammar A. IDLIBI

AC 39538

Appellate Court of Connecticut.

Argued February 20, 2018

Officially released July 17, 2018

Tareq Al Ahmad, for the appellant (defendant).

Jeremiah Ollennu, for the appellee (plaintiff).

Alvord, Keller and Bishop, Js.

KELLER, J.

The defendant, Ammar A. Idlibi, appeals from the judgment of the trial court dissolving his marriage to the plaintiff, Katie N. Conroy. The defendant claims that the court erred (1) by finding that neither party bore greater responsibility for the breakdown of the marriage and (2) in making financial awards that were favorable to the plaintiff.¹ We affirm the judgment of the court.²

The court found the following facts. In 2005, the plaintiff, when she was eighteen years old and while living in California, began to communicate with the defendant over the internet. The plaintiff was estranged from her mother at the time and living with her grandmother. At first, the plaintiff and the defendant discussed the plaintiff's interest in the defendant's faith, Islam. The topic of conversation quickly shifted from the defendant's faith to marriage. "About three weeks after meeting online, [the] defendant flew to California, picked up [the] plaintiff, brought her to Connecticut and they married."

Initially, the plaintiff and the defendant were happily married. The defendant, a dentist, opened his own practice in 2007. His high income level from this practice enabled the parties to enjoy a lavish lifestyle. They had three children during the marriage.

Despite initial marital bliss, "[t]he seeds of this dissolution were sown at the very time the relationship began." The plaintiff alleged that the defendant exerted overbearing control over many aspects of her life and that he physically assaulted her. The defendant harbored suspicions that the plaintiff was unfaithful during the marriage. The defendant's dental practice also went through down periods, placing financial strain upon them and forcing the plaintiff to loan the business the total balance of an education fund, about $132,000, left to her by her deceased father.

The plaintiff commenced this proceeding on May 19, 2015, seeking to dissolve her ten year marriage to the defendant. Following a trial, the court, on August 15, 2016, rendered a judgment of dissolution, finding that the marriage had broken down irretrievably. The court did not allocate fault for the breakdown of the marriage.

Pursuant to the dissolution decree, the court made certain orders for the payment of alimony and the distribution of property.³

I

The defendant first claims that the court should have found that the plaintiff was at fault for the breakdown of the parties' marriage due to an alleged affair.

The court made the following findings relevant to this claim. "The marriage of the parties is dissolved on the grounds of irretrievable breakdown. Both parties are declared to be single and unmarried." The court "ascribe[d] no greater fault for the breakdown of the marriage to either party." With respect to the alleged affair, the court, having considered the allegation that the plaintiff engaged in a relationship during the marriage with another man named George Jones, found that there was "no direct evidence of [the plaintiff] and [Jones] ever having sex."

"The trial court's findings [of fact] are binding upon this court unless they are clearly erroneous in light of the evidence ...." (Internal quotation marks omitted.) Marinos v. Building Rehabilitations, LLC , 67 Conn. App. 86, 89, 787 A.2d 46 (2001). "A factual finding is clearly erroneous when it is not supported by any evidence in the record or when there is evidence to support it, but the reviewing court is left with the definite and firm conviction that a mistake has been made.... Simply put, we give great deference to the findings of the trial court because of its function to weigh and interpret the evidence before it and to pass upon the credibility of witnesses." (Internal quotation marks omitted.) DiVito v. DiVito , 77 Conn. App. 124, 137, 822 A.2d 294, cert. denied, 264 Conn. 921, 828 A.2d 617 (2003).

After carefully reviewing the evidence, we conclude that the court's factual finding that neither party was more responsible than the other for the breakdown of the marriage was not clearly erroneous. The defendant argues that the court should have found that the plaintiff bore greater responsibility for the breakdown of the marriage because she engaged in a sexual extramarital affair. The court considered the evidence of the plaintiff's extramarital affair and found that it was not sexual in nature. The plaintiff, although admitting during her testimony that she had an affair with Jones, did not state that she had a sexual relationship with him. The court was free to credit her testimony. In addition, the record provides an ample basis to conclude that, despite the evidence of the plaintiff's alleged affair, both parties were responsible for the breakdown of the marriage. The plaintiff's testimony provides an account of the defendant's attempts to control varied aspects of her life and allegations of physical abuse. This left the court to balance the evidence of the plaintiff's affair with the defendant's own misconduct. Accordingly, the court's finding that neither party was more at fault for the breakdown of the marriage was supported by the evidence and, thus, it was not clearly erroneous.

II

The defendant claims that the court erred in making several financial awards. Specifically, the defendant claims that the court erred in (1) setting the amount and duration of alimony; (2) rendering a monetary judgment in favor of the plaintiff; (3) allowing the plaintiff to take sole possession of certain marital property; (4) finding that he should be solely liable for certain debts; and (5) awarding the plaintiff attorney's fees.

The court found the following facts relevant to this claim. "This is a ten year marriage. The plaintiff is twenty years younger than [the] defendant. Both are now highly stressed by the breakdown of their marriage and the ensuing conflict resulting in their numerous, adversarial and tension-filled appearances in various courtrooms. [The] plaintiff suffers from temporary or treatable conditions, and [the] defendant is relatively healthy for his age. They lived a high [lifestyle] thanks to [the] defendant's many years of training and his earnings as a dental specialist. The lurid drama of this dissolution and the other court proceedings will eventually fade from public view. [The] defendant's dental practice will recover, giving him a greater capacity than [the] plaintiff for future acquisition of capital assets and income. However, [the] plaintiff is—using [the] defendant's words—‘intelligent and capable.’ While her vocational skills and employability may be limited now, she has many years to seek an education or training in order to provide for herself and the support of her children."

The court found that there should be "a sufficient amount of rehabilitative alimony flowing from [the] defendant to [the] plaintiff for a term allowing [the] plaintiff a realistic opportunity to seek education or vocational training .... [O]ne or both of these parents may in the future have a support obligation to their children. Such a future support obligation shall not be considered a substantial change of circumstances to raise or lower alimony because the court took these circumstances into account when deciding its alimony order."

The court ordered that the defendant "shall pay $1250 per week alimony to [the] plaintiff for a term of five years from the date of this decision. Such alimony shall be taxable income to [the] plaintiff and deductible to [the] defendant. The term of the alimony is nonmodifiable.... Alimony ends upon the death of either party or [the] plaintiff's remarriage. The terms of [ General Statutes §] 46b-86 (b) are incorporated by reference into these orders."

With respect to property distributions, the court issued the following orders: "[The] defendant shall immediately transfer by means of a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) one half ... of his RBC Wealth Management retirement account ... that accrued from the date of the marriage to the date of this decision plus gains and losses incurred from the date of the decision until the date of distribution. [The] defendant may choose a qualified professional to assist in the preparation of such an order. He shall be solely responsible for any and all costs of preparation or implementation. The court retains jurisdiction over the preparation and effectuation of any QDRO....

"[The] plaintiff shall keep all other personal property now in her possession without further claim by [the] defendant....

"[The] defendant shall pay [the] plaintiff a lump sum property settlement of $132,000 on or before five years from the date of this decision."

With respect to the debts, the court made the following factual findings. "[The] defendant shall be solely responsible for the timely payment of all debts listed under ‘III Liabilities,’ including the addendum for this category, on his May 23, 2016 financial affidavit. These debts include the full amounts owed to the Internal Revenue Service and Connecticut's Department of Revenue Services.

"[The] defendant shall also be solely responsible for the timely payment of the following debts listed by [the] plaintiff on her May 11, 2016 financial affidavit: ‘Federal Tax Lien,’ CCMC (children's care/copay) and four bills to Bristol Hospital totaling $474. He shall hold her harmless thereon. If [the] plaintiff provides written proof of her payment of any of these bills, then [the] defendant shall reimburse her for that which she paid. Otherwise, he may pay the provider directly....

"[The] plaintiff shall be solely responsible for all other debts listed on her May 11, 2016 financial affidavit. She shall hold [the] defendant harmless thereon." (Footnote omitted.)...